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What Actually Happens During a Real Family Photos Session

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If you’ve ever hesitated to book a family photo session because you’re not sure what to expect, or you’re secretly worried your kids won’t cooperate, your house is too messy, or your partner isn’t exactly thrilled about it—I want you to know: I see you.

I know how much emotional labor moms like you carry. You’re not just the one booking the session. You’re managing outfits, energy, and expectations—on top of the million other things already on your plate. When your camera roll is full of everyone but you, there’s a quiet ache there.

I built my entire approach around that ache. Because as a Chicago fall family photographer, I don’t want to capture curated perfection. I want to document your real life—the kind that matters most.

Here’s what actually happens during a real family photo session with me.

First, We Set the Tone (Warm + Easy)

From the moment I arrive, my energy is intentional: calm, relaxed, and rooted in connection. There’s no pressure, no “look over here and smile!” Instead, we ease in like friends. You show me around, your kids size me up, and I quietly let everyone fall into their rhythm.

We might chat in the kitchen while you finish your coffee. I’ll ask your kids about their favorite snacks or superheroes. Then, I’ll ask you how the morning went—not to judge, but because I care.

This is a safe, no-pressure space. That’s how the magic starts.

Then, We Let the Day Unfold

This is where everything shifts. Rather than directing, I follow.

A real family photo session doesn’t mean posing everyone in a field and hoping for the best. Instead, it means letting your family be who you already are—and simply documenting it.

Your session might include:

  • Pancake flipping in the kitchen
  • Baby snuggles and toddler meltdowns
  • Couch pileups with books and blankies
  • Backyard silliness with bare feet and muddy paws

There’s no forced timeline. No rigid expectations. Just honest, heart-centered storytelling through photographs.

I’m Watching for the Magic (Not the Perfection)

While you’re in the moment, I’m noticing the details you don’t see:

  • The way your daughter rests her head on your shoulder
  • How your partner looks at you when you’re not looking
  • That gap-toothed grin your son gives when he’s actually laughing

You don’t need to stage anything. In fact, the most powerful photographs come from moments that feel unremarkable at the time—but are gut-punchingly beautiful later.

That’s the core of a real family photo session in Chicago: quiet intimacy, playful chaos, and unfiltered connection.

You’ll Probably Forget I’m There

This is what most of my clients say after: “It just felt like you were part of the family for the day.”

That’s the goal. I blend in, follow the energy, and allow your family to just be. The less you perform, the more real the images become. Often, your kids ask if I can stay when the session wraps—and honestly, I always take that as the highest compliment.

What You’ll Walk Away With

You’ll receive:

  • A gallery full of moments you didn’t realize you needed
  • Images that feel like your life—not a photoshoot
  • Proof that you were there, that you mattered, that you loved this hard

And more than anything, you’ll get to relive the season you’re in now… before it shifts into the next.

This Is What You Deserve

You don’t need to clean your house or have matching outfits. Nor do you need everyone to cooperate. You don’t need anything to be perfect.

What you need is to show up as you are.

Because the truth is—your real life is already beautiful. And it’s worth remembering.


Ready to Book a Real Family Photo Session in Chicago?

If you’re ready to stop waiting for “perfect” and want to preserve your family as you are right now, I’d love to be your Chicago fall family photographer. Let’s create something that makes you feel every time you look at it.

Book Your Session Here

Chicago family session cooking together in the kitchen by Taylor Lynn Studios
Brother and sister running during family photography session in chicago